Boyfriend likes gay things?

Question

Okay so I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months and I know he's bi. We've talked about his likes and dislikes sort of. All I know is he would like me to put a strap on and maybe fuck him in the ass. I just don't know if I feel comfortable with it tho because then he might like it a lot and want to be with a guy. I'm just scared he'll leave me for a guy. Plus I've never been with a bi guy, help?

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Straight guys have pegging fantasies too, their prostate is back there.
  
As for your fears... If someone leaves you, they leave you. It can't really be prevented. I doubt think pegging would put him over the line one way or the other.
 
However, it comes down to you only doing what you feel comfortable with. Don't be pressured into anything.

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I'm way out of my depth here but if you're uncomfortable with it then don't do it. It seems like your insecuries about him leaving if you don't are much deeper than him being bi. If he leaves because of that then let him leave, it's not the relationship for either one of you.

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I mean if you love him that much and wana keep him (not lose him to another guy) i say screw him from behind ! He wants it , you already know he likes it and you excepted him for him . I dont think you doing it will make him want a man , your pleasing him . Right ?! 🤔

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Um, you just said that he is bi. So yeah hes gonna like. Hes probably already had a real guy do it to him already. If he leaves you for a guy then that is just the way it goes. Personally, i would never be comfortable with that. I would suggest u not have unprotected sex with him.

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I was in your same situation.  Honestly,  he got a toy, I fucked him with that toy, and I encouraged him wanting to try being with a man.  I was open to it and honestly,  yeah he loved having sex with a guy but with me he was equally as satisfied with and without the toy.  Now,  we are not together anymore but we go buy toys together and we will talk about how most women are not open minded like I am.

I'm happy he can talk to me about that kind of thing. Communication is always key no matter what. Talk to him.  I even got turned on of the thought of watching another man fuck him. But that is just me.

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He's with YOU, as a person, not a vagina. He's dating you for your personality, not for the sex.  Just because he likes anal (not only something gay men are into fyi, definitely not a "gay" thing) that doesn't mean he's going to leave you for a man. If he likes YOU then he's going to keep dating YOU.
I know it can be hard for some people to understand that when dating a bi or pan person. It's a common insecurity to feel like they may leave you for someone of the other gender they're interested in, but it's the same as dating a straight/gay person. We aren't basing our relationships on the type of sex we want, but rather the kind of person we want to be with. Yes this means there's more options available to them than if they were straight, but that shouldn't be something to worry you. They chose you for a reason and I highly doubt it was the fact that you have a vagina.
As far as your sex life goes, if you're uncomfortable with anal then don't do it. But you should definitely talk to your SO about your fears and insecurities. This isn't something to hide from him, especially since his sexual preferences and sexual orientation won't be changing any time soon.

Boyfriend likes gay things?

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