HELP! Jerk Husband alert! 😞

My husband has been very insensitive towards me lately and hasn't been much help post partum. He works full time and when he comes home he constantly complains he's tired, holds the baby for 2-3 hours in the day and sleeps all night . I'm always up with the baby at night. I let him sleep and sometimes even go to living room to let him rest. I cook, I clean the house, buy everything the baby needs, etc... on top of caring for a baby for the most part of the day. When I ask for help or suggest that he should help me clean dishes at least, he starts yelling talking about he is tired and works all day. He thinks I do nothing all day with the baby.  .. Things got worse between us tonight as I asked him if he can wash the two dishes that he dropped in the sink. He yells at me saying don't ever cook for him again if I'm gonna ask him to wash dishes, and that he has sh** to do (which was him browsing through his computer looking at facebook posts)... He then proceeded to toss out our dishes. He told me that dishes and cooking and caring for baby are a woman's job and then told me that I should take out the trash from now on... He then refused to help me bring some boxes upstairs and told me that's not his job... I'm just so fed up with him, his jerk attitude and mistreatment. He didn't help me recover easily either. He told me he is mad cause I don't give him sex and he can get it elsewhere ... I'm ready to change my name back to my maiden name and I don't want to be with someone like this anymore but because of our newborn, I don't know what to do. I told him I'll go to my mothers house for the weekend and he won't allow it... Sorry this is so long but any advice would be nice. I want a divorce so bad 😞 but the baby ...