MARRIAGE PROBLEMS FROM INFERTILITY?

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Me and my husband had two failed iuis and now we are moving onto IVF...  We thought insurance was covering completely and it's not we have to pay 5,000 as of now and still waiting to hear about the meds.... past month and now especially since all this all me and my husband do is argue about little things and all we talk about is IVF IVF IVF I'm literally crying myself to sleep saying to myself why is this all happening to me at once... any other marriages go thru this and did you recover from this?

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I'm so sorry, Christina. This process is so difficult. You will be in my prayers. I believe it was you who said to me, "God gives his strongest challenges to those who can take it." Hang in there! ❤️

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Thank you so much ladies we will come up with plan B in case it doesn't happen but gonna try and think positive and yes Esme that was me that said that but don't feel so strong anymore

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This might sound bad but my dh n I have had lots of failure s too spent tons of money on infertility treatment s n 1 miscarriage we r on our 2 nd ivf this month but we at least I figure if it doesn't work I'll be okay with it I'm tired of trying it's been 3 years and it gets harder w all these failures I don't think I can keep trying if this ivf doesn't work reading books about not having kids helps me and I just figure we will travel if we can't have kids. You have to try an make a plan b if you don't have kids it might help that's what we do try planning where you might go on a vacation u have to look toward the future one day that's we do.

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Christina. I am sorry you are having such a hard time, IVF is definitely a stressful and painful road but don't let the process take over. Be aware that both you are hurting and fighting isn't going to help, try talking calmly about  IVF and only do it a couple hours a day, spend quality time with your spouse (go to the movies, dinner or go out with friends) and don't talk about IVF. As for the money come up with a plan, maybe work some over time or open a credit card that offers introductory 0% finance charge for a year or a loan. Hope you and your hubby get in a better place. IVF made my marriage stronger and we are now almost 10 weeks pregnant! Don't give up. Good luck!

MARRIAGE PROBLEMS FROM INFERTILITY?

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