I thought he was joking

Sybil • my names is sybil im 21 have a daughter whos 2 i love music nerd stuff books and food
So my boyfriend told me that he is a nypho I thought he was joking because of the conversation we had before he told me this but now I see this is true my lady bits hurt I love having sex with him but I'm so achy down there any one have any tips on how to make it not hurt so bad