virginity and the loss of ones purity

Anyone else HATE the concept of virginity and sexual purity? As someone who has been having sex since I was 16 (if you count oral sex as sex- I lost my "penetration virginity" at 18) and is now in their 20s, I hate when young girls Are taught that their "virginity" is a gift. No. sex is not dirty. If you are safe and educated then sex should not be a taboo subject for you. You are worth just as much a non virgin as you are a virgin. Also, the concept of virginity is extremely male based. Women usually tend to get the most pleasure from clitoral stimulation while penetration is not always (in heterosexual sex) a sure way to achieve orgasm for a woman, but men often do.