what would you do?

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So I went through my husbands phone yesterday (once again yes I know this was terrible of me no need to comment) and he still seems pissed about it. I found that he was texting 2 girls complimenting them saying that they look amazing at work.. and casual talk. What do you guys think about these messages ?

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Unacceptable that he's playing the victim here. How DARE HE even have texted those girls! That's cheating in my book.

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My ex husband did this for 3 out of 4 years of marriage if he does it once he will do it again sadly

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But... he's still going to see them at work right?  So now just complimenting them in person is how I'd see it.  I wouldn't be able to trust him. That's just me

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He shouldn't be complimenting other women. The only woman he should be complimenting is you!

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I feel once he broke that trust he should just hand you his phone to help build the trust back. Seems like he's mad at you for him doing something wrong. If he didn't want to deal with "this" maybe he shouldn't be inappropriate with his coworkers.

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Idk but if he's your husband he shouldn't be looking at other woman.

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Easier said than done but I'd break up with him,  I couldn't deal with not trusting my bf to go to work everyday

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If I understand correctly, he said he blocked them so that they wouldn't cause anymore issues for you guys, so that's good. I don't think you're wrong for going through his phone if he's done things in the past to make you not trust him. If he apologized, I would probably forgive him. But explain to him why you felt the need to go through his phone and that you're sorry it came to that. Hopefully he'll understand and stop being upset about it. Good luck!

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