Some people.. ๐Ÿ˜‘

Ellen
This was from a conversation between a friend and I. It's me and my husband's first child, I'm in w14 and I've had a pretty rough pregnancy so far. I still want 4 kids in total though. 
Me: *complains about something pregnancy related*
Friend: "So you're gonna do this 4 times?"
Me: "Yeah"
Friend: "It can't be that bad then"
It's just so annoying. Are my feelings irrational? :(