wondering

Tee
Now I am wondering if I am using too much preseed. I saw a video on YouTube 2 days ago and it showed LOTS of sperm moving in semen and had been outside the body for 30 mins. Preseed slowed the Sperm down and some disappeared. But I see lets of women who said preseed helped them. Mind just wondering. What am I doing wrong 😔🙏🏽