My future hubby & I have a lot of long term goals. However a lot of those goals require money. I've always dreamt of having this intimate beautiful rustic beach wedding. Since neither of our family's are super big. My dream was to have my grandparents involved & most importantly have my grandfather who raised me walk me down the isle. Since he recently passed, I'm not as motivated to have all that anymore. So now we've talked about just going down to the court house with both of our closest friends. Which actually works out better since we are looking into buying our first house & expanding our family by 1.