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Lisabet • Thu, Nov 03

Please help!

Sorry this is sorta long.

My husband is SO insecure.

I have a guy friend I went to highschool with and we just recently started talking again.

Literally all we talk about is our recipes for cooking. That is the majority of it. The guy lives in another state. We talk like 1-3 days out of the week.

My husband has had some HORRIBLE relationships in the past, he's been cheated on so many times that he things I'm going to cheat on him with my friend.

I have never flirted with my friend nor had any intentions or anything with meeting up with him. He is a really good friend of mine, I don't want anything sexual or romantic with him.

My husband asks everyday if I only want him, and if I want to be with him forever and if I'm cheating.. I tell him calmly that I love him and only him forever. But today he related me to his exs including his abusive, neglecting ex wife. That put me over the top. We were yelling at each other and it brought me to tears...

We did say our sorries and we made up and everything.

What should I do? Should I break it off with my friend? NOTE: this happens with EVERY guy friend I have..

Should I keep trying to get my husband to see that I'm not cheating and never will cheat on him??

PLEASE HELP!!

Don't just read.

THANK YOU!!!

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