Sexless and romanticless marriage

Hannah • 5 beautiful children 14 angel babies pregnant and shooting for #6: the last one
*sigh* I never thought I'd be here. My husband doesn't like to have sex. We literally have sex 5 or 6 times a month tops! When we first got together he could hardly keep his hands off of me but as my health has started to decline he seems less and less attracted to me. And it's not just sex it's the romantic part as well. Today I cleaned the entire house and made him a home cooked meal all from scratch. He complained about the food but I figured maybe he just wasn't really hungry so we go to have sex (I initiated...again) we literally had sex for 3 mins and he came then just laid there. Like just didn't even move. We used to cuddle and talk and go at it again after sex. He literally goes to sleep right after now. I don't know how to tell him unhappy and I can't live like this anymore. :(