Porn?

Question

So, I found some porn sites on my boyfriends phone. And just to be clear, i wasn't going through it, it was an accident. But I don't know how to feel about. We're sexually active and seeing that makes me feel not good enough. I haven't mentioned it to him yet.  What do i do? 😔

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Use a lot of I messages like many learned in elementary school like 
I feel because.... 
I find that helps get my feelings across without the other person feeling attacked or taking it the wrong way. Good luck love

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You should tell him how you feel about it. I'm sure he'll understand.
My bf and i are long distance so we talked about that and I said that when we are together that I'm not okay with that and he's perfectly fine with it because i explained how that would hurt me because i wouldn't feel like I was good enough for him.

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Him watching porn has nothing to do with you. Men are visual beings and don't feel like your inadequate. We are more emotional and put our feelings into things. Men just like the visual.

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You're totally normal in this case. Seeing that most likely makes you feel unattractive or unsatisfying because you're not the only one has with.

Just keep in mind that you aren't around for him 24/7, and offer him pictures of you instead if that's what you'd prefer.

Best thing is to just be careful and ask him why he watches it. If he likes it, or doesn't like to ask you for pictures, or doesn't have time. It's different for each person, but the main point is you do need to tell him how it makes you feel.

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Idno i watch porn and i wouldnt be comfortable talking about it but my so gets excited and trys to go through my phone to see what i was watching haha everyone dose it it dosnt mean that he dosnt love ur body his just enjoing himself haha 😁

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