to anyone who's ever gotten a wax down there

I'm posting anon because I'm honestly very shy to ask this question lol but has anyone ever gotten a wax down there or gets waxed down there only? If so did it hurt? Where do you even go for this type of wax? How long does it last? I'm curious because I shave and I get really irritated and get a lot of razor bumps and ingrown hairs due to it and it's embarrassing so I haven't shaved in long time(part of that is because I also have a 4 month old and just don't have the time Lol) it's been almost 6 months since I last shaved and I've been dating a wonderful man for a while now and have not had sex with him due to this...I'm also a big girl so I'm kinda shy to get a wax down there because I don't want to be judged but I really want to get one....I just wana feel pretty and I don't... any advice and information would help please 😩😩😩