so my kids dad and I have been together for almost 8years. we broke up and two weeks after the break up our almost two year old passed away. we were not together for 2 months. we both slept with someone new and realized it was each other we wanted. our 8years anniversary is coming up on the 5th. do we celebrate it normal or is our new anniversary when we got back together. I personally feel that the break up time was a bad time losing my daughter having a midlife crisis I'd like to forget I tries to be normal with a total douche when everything was falling apart so I want to pretend none of it happened and resume our relationship thoughts. we have 4 kids two from previous marriage and two together our youngest died.