Troubled mind

I asked my boyfriend to be romantic and he did. The only thing is he only did it cause i asked him too not because he wanted to. I told him i wanted flowers and etc. He brought flowers, took me to Ruby Tuesday's then the days inn. The next morning i felt like an idiot. Its been a year, but we've known each other for 10. He says he loves me but he really doesnt show it in the way he should..im 27 i want more from a man. A real man with a job on place, goals ugh am i settling? Smh idk ugh why me man... Better off single