I don't wanna be social!!

My husband and I just moved to a new neighbor hood and our neighbors are all really nice. They all have kids and it's very family orentated. Our neighbor is having a bon fire tonight and my husband is essentially forcing me to go… I don't want to be social. I understand we are the new people and we need to be friendly but I'm 39 weeks pregnant. I don't want to sit by a giant fire in a pop up lawn chair.... normally I'd be all over stuff like this but not tonight. Ugh baby girl no time like the present to make mama's water break....