Dating advice

So I am 37, and going through a divorce. I never anticipated I would be here after only a year of marriage 💔

So I feel it's time for me to get back out there and date. I am just a bit worried that I am only attracted to men who are no good. I don't know if there's something wrong with me, but I can't imagine going on a second date with someone who I don't fancy. It seems the women I know, who are in loving, healthy relationships are with men who they were never initially attracted to. I just don't know how to kiss someone I don't like the look of...but I desperately want a happy healthy relationship. Can someone help me with this 🙏🏻