How to go about this...

Ci
Just got a tattoo for the baby that I lost December 17. My MIL thinks it's okay to get it too. Mind you, she just found out the day I got the tattoo, since I just came to terms with it a week ago. I feel like it's just not her place.  I mean she didn't know about the baby. What do you guys think? Am I wrong for feeling this way?