am I a lesbian?

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Sex with men doesn't feel good to me. Anytime I date a man, I never want to have sex with him. I don't even get "wet" down there. I don't find any pleasure about penis' at all. 
I find myself thinking about women a lot. Women are so thoughtful and much more sweeter. Plus.. boobs. Ah boobs.  
I've never been with a woman sexually. But I've dated one before. (We tried having sex but she didn't know what she was doing) I broke up with her and decided to date men again. Still.. not feeling the penis or men in general. 
Recently I started talking to a female I met online. We text/FaceTime/snapchat a lot. She's soooo freaking sweet. She isn't a girly girl but is kind of a tom boy. She still wears women clothes. I like her A LOT.

Am I a lesbian? I'm so confused.. 
and before anyone rags on me, I'm 22 years old. And this isn't a troll post.

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Just go with it and over time you'll figure out what you want. You don't need a label

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Maybe. You don't have to decide right now, just do what feels right. Labels aren't important.

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You don't need a label :-) if you want to identify as a lesbian that's fine, if you don't that's fine too.  Do what makes you happy!!!

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Yes? I mean what else would you call it?

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Just gonna mention that attraction is complicated and not everyone finds a label that fit them (even though there are soo many). I've had some problems with this to, but just decided that I don't want a label, I like who I like. It is worth to know about the split attraction model though, which basically categories different types of attraction (romantical, sexual, but also a lot of other ones). The point is that if one is heteroromantic does not necessarily mean one is heterosexual. Like, even though I have a girlfriend whom I love, I am more sexually attracted to boys than girls

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Do what makes you happy if you wanna date a girl to try it out do that if you wanna stick with the men you go girl just make sure he or she is making you feel good aswel 🥰

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If you're attracted to women and not men I'm pretty sure that makes you a lesbian.

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Just try what you like(: labels aren't necessary as someone said. I don't label myself as "straight" although my SO is a man. I could have easily fallen in love with a woman, but I found him. So..Just go with the flow(: it's okay to be whatever! No shame(: do you girl

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You can also be bisexual

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