what NOT to say to your pregnant GF

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"I can't wait until you lose weight"
Did you.... did you really just say that? I'm 33 weeks pregnant with your 6lb child and you want to say that 😑😑 asshole. Anyone else had some rude things said to you that made you feel a little less happy about your body? Lmfao or am I the only one?

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Nope. Mama is a bitch, everyone knows not to fw me lol

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The last time I went to visit my parents my 25 year old sister (I'm 23) told me I looked like a cow and then walked away

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A coworker of mine told me my ass was getting a lot bigger. She said she meant it as a compliment and she was jealous...but I still wanted to cry.

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My boyfriend told me the other day "your eating again FAT ASS" ooo I went off on him.

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Right before we were gonna have sex he looks at my stomach and says I wish we could just take this off for awhile.

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My MIL (who btw has been obese her whole life lol) told me I was "as big as a house" and "looked like I was about to explode". Too funny to me as I am still much smaller than her at almost 37wks pregnant 😂

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My cousins bf used to say mean shit to her all the time along those lines ... worst one was Jesus christ are you not using the bio oil I got u I'm starting to notice stretch marks ... umm hell no .... my hubby knows you say that kinda shit to me get the fuck out ... he has never said anything but your beautiful and I'm going to miss when your not pregnant ect

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I would literally slit my boyfriends throat. No not really but I'd definitely punch him in the mouth. I'd say some hurtful shit back if he said that to me. He's said hurtful things to me but not directly or purposely. My dads the one who calls me fat every time he sees me and he's the person who struggles the most with keeping his weight down. Atleast I have an excuse. And I know I look big like my thighs look huge from the front but it's because my hips spread so far. I had a petite frame before I got pregnant. I think he thinks this because my mom was 90 some lbs when she got pregnant with me and was only 135 full term. But idc I know I'm doing good and I'm mostly just swollen because I'm almost 34 weeks pregnant and I've only gained 24 lbs so far. So everyone can suck it! I'm proud of myself and you should be too no matter how much or how little you've gained because this shit ain't no walk in the park! Especially while dealing with someone like that lol.

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My new boss said my butt has got big. She then went on to say I know it's rude to say it but it's true

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I wouldn't take it to heart personally luckily I haven't gained a bunch of weight. My husband and I were very honest with each other about trying to be healthy during the pregnancy and not gain a bunch of weight that wasn't neccesary in the very beginning of our pregnancy. People do however make dumb comments about how small I am and how I'm starving my son even though I'm 33 weeks with a 6lbs baby that pisses me off.