I just need to put this out here. I am constantly seeing posts about "he cheated what should I do" "he wants to be with me but have sex with other people" "he hit me" and these seriously break my heart. If you are struggling with any of these things or if you are in a situation just like I was at a time in my life, I just want to tell you; I get it. I understand. I know what it's like to be treated like total dog shit and feel like you can't leave. And it sucks. It's one of the worst feelings in the world. I remember praying to just not even wake up in the morning or praying it was all just a bad dream. I've been there, done that. If your man is sneaking around behind your back, if he's hitting you, if he's lying to you, I'm sorry but that's not a man at all.

    And I also want to tell you to stop. Just stop it already. Stop taking less than what you deserve. Each an every one of you is a goddess and deserve to be treated as such. You are a prize to be won. You deserve the best. Your strong enough to do it.  I did, and at the bottom of this post, you'll see where I am today. There's nothing in this universe that can stop you from letting go and starting over. Unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless your realize that the situation is over, you can't move forward.