Bad sex

Ena

I love my man a fucking lot. He is the best thing thats ever happened to me, and Im more grateful each day to have him in my life.

But the only problem is the sex is really bad. We have been together for 2 months now and we've had sex 5-6 times. The first few times we tried to do it, he came way too fast and now he doesnt come at all. I don't know if he has a problem or sth, but he just doesn't get hard. And he is so rough , when he's kissing me or pinching(?) my nipples or fingering me, he is just so rough and it kinda hurts. My ex was great in bed and we used to have the best sex every time. I was obsessed with having sex with him. and now , i'd rather not ever have sex with my current boyfriend. I know I should tell him these things, but I dont want to hurt him. I love him so much,and even though sex is like the last thing that'd come between us, it is still kind of bothering. I dont know what to do. Suggest me sth.