I feel so pissed!

I was a chapter president of a worldwide club which came with a lot of "friends" on social media. With that i see alot of bs. I see multiple of people that accidently get pregnant, get pregnant not knowing wich one of the guys they are sleeping with is the father, guys knocking up a one night stand ... and here we are tracking, checking , logging and nothing. I know a lot of women, especially on here, that they have spent hundred and thousands of dollars for a chance. All i have ever wanted in life is to be a wife and a mother and these people out there hating their children makes me want to catch a charge. Thanks for letting me vent. I cant post anywhere else. We dont want anyone knkwing we are trying. Dont want the do this.. in time.. maybe its just not right yet. Pep talks. I love this community.