So me and my boyfriend / best friend broke up on Sunday and I am feeling in pain. We started as friends then best friends then boyfriend and girlfriend. We were dating for 4 years.  The reason we broke up was because he said I love you but not in love with you. You mean the world to me and I care for u a lot and I want to stay friends, I still want to be in your life. However he being crying and said he hurting but if he isn't in love with me why is he hurting and I texted him yesterday and today regarding some financial stuff stuff we still dealing with and no reply? I'm confused? Help!