confused and not sure what to do.

Maya
I am diabetic and pregnant 16 weeks despite my OB concerns about getting pregnant with having issues like diabetes and PCOS. So far everything looks good but I am under close watch of my doctors. I had my OB who refered me to diabetes specialist. From that point I was seeing my diabetes specialist every 3-4 weeks. Then my OB wanted to see me as well every 3-4 weeks as well. So I am jumping between two doctors and it was draining me not only physically and morally but also financially. Every specialist visit is $50! For some reason I didn't get my diabetes specialist bill at all so far. But my OB is charging me every time I see her I am puzzled as why do I need to see her if all she does is checks my sugar levels (my diabetes doctor does that as well) and asking me if I have any questions. But when I asked her about insulin I am taking she couldn't really say anything since she is not diabetes specialist. Ugh...so I asked my diabetes specialist if I need to see my OB anymore to which she said it is up to me just let her know if I won't go to my OB because she doesn't want to be patient steeler. So I was thinking to email my OB and just tell her that I will be going only to my diabetes doctor. But after today's visit with my DD (diabetes doctor) I got uncomfortable feeling that she doesn't have time to listen to me and I couldn't ask all of my questions because she kinda stood above me and let me ask questions while I had ultrasound done. I was so distracted I couldn't remember all the questions and couldn't watch my baby on monitor. So now I am thinking...maybe I should go back to my OB for those questions? But some of them are questions that only DD can answer. I am so confused and emotional mess right now...if anybody can get through all this and help me with advice...or just thought you might have about this situation I would be very thankful. 
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