Asking Bae About Other Sexual Partners ?? Advice !

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Ok so boom. Me and this guy have known each other for a while but we just started messing around this summer. The last time we had sex I noticed he didnt use a condom. I didnt say anything in the moment. But it got me thinking is he fucking w/ other girls. I want to ask him but idk how i should bring it up because we dont really text like that & idk if its my place to ask you know. like he's not my boyfriend or anything . but then again if we're having sex raw i have a right to now right ? Omg idk Help me !!!

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You need to ask him and I would come out and say it. Because if he isn't using condoms with you he prolly not using any with them either. Next time make sure you tell him to wear one! Always be safe

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First, I would make an appt to get tested. Just to be safe. And I had Chlamydia and I honestly had no idea.. none what so ever. I went in to get my yearly and asked them to test me for all STD's while I'm there and I was positive for it. I don't even know who I got it from, not that I was sleeping with multiple people, I just don't know how long I even had because I had no symptoms. So I would definitely get tested.
Second, I would just bring condoms with you next time and offer one up before you get down to business if you don't wanna ask him if he's sleeping with other people. Butttt you do have the right to ask him because you are sleeping with him and he's putting you at risk and vice versa. That doesn't mean he won't lie about who he's sleeping with. So, I would just use condoms anyways.

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You should ask him.  You have every right.  But the more important thing to do is to get tested. There's no shame in it.  And the most important thing to do is always use condoms if you are not in a committed, long term relationship.  Because you don't know his history and he could just as easily lie to you as tell you the truth.  Also, don't rely on the guy to always supply the condom.  Always keep a box on hand.  And make sure your partners know they have to use one.  It's not a big deal.  Just tell them.  Personally, I would ask him why the hell he didn't use a condom the last time you both had sex before you ever have sex with him again.  Well, actually, I never would have sex with him again if I were you.  Because he didn't protect you or respect you enough to ask if it was okay not to use a condom.  Chances are if he didn't use a condom with you, he hasn't used condoms with others.  Get tested and don't take chances.

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Yeah definitely ask. It's crazy to me how hesitant people are about stuff like that. If you're comfortable enough to have sex, you should be comfortable enough to ask questions like that. If he doesn't like it then don't have sex with him

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First of all u have to protect ur self no matter what. People that u don't know can be out here lieing and fuxking u raw with the same dick they put in a hooker. I'm telling u this becaus it happened to one of my closest friend and she caught things from this dude. If u ask him he might even lie to u even though he shouldn't it's still ur job to protect urself not just from pregnancy but other stds.

Asking Bae About Other Sexual Partners ?? Advice !

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