When is enough, enough?

Question

I've been having issues with my SO since shortly after we got together. Issues such as cheating. About a month, no more then 2 months, into our relationship I found out I was pregnant so I stayed, as I delt with his cheating. Honestly I don't think he ever went longer than 2 weeks without texting other females. I KNOW I'm stupid for staying. But I always wanted a traditional family. So, a year later, he's been behaving in that part but with these raging hormones I can't help but still bitch at him and be mad over the pettiest things. I can't stand when he doesn't clean up after himself and that's why we recently had our last fight and it was bad enough that he ended up moving back to his moms. He's been gone for 4 days, we haven't spoken in that time, and today I find out that he's talking to females again. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I've already given it my all and I just can't deal with anymore of his BS. But I also can't help but feel like I want my family together and I should apologize for going nuts on him over not picking up his things. I don't even know if this post makes sense, I'm just ranting.. 
But I'm curious to know, when is enough, enough? All BS aside, how much would you be able to overlook before leaving? Mind you, this is the father of your child.

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I would leave BECAUSE it's the father of my child. I will never teach my son that it's ok to do those things to his gf/wife and I would never teach my daughter that this is what she can expect from her bf/husband.

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It was enough to in the beginning. Tell him bye

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I can't tell you what to do. That is completely up to you. When you decide it's enough, then it's enough. You know your limits and I hope you know your worth. God bless you.

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I'd have been gone as soon as he cheated. I really feel for you though, as I completely understand why you don't want your kids coming from a broken home, but surely that's better than a toxic one?

My dad cheated on my mum countless times but she stayed because of me and my sister. However, I knew what was happening (kids ain't stupid) and that led to me having low self worth (after seeing my mum treated like crap for 12 years). If you have a little boy do you want him learning it's okay to treat women like that, and if you have a little girl that it's okay to be treated like crap.

This is the reason that me and my SO were together for over 8 years before we decided to have children, although that doesn't help you now.

Take a step back and thinking of how your life, and your child's life, will be in 5 years time if you stay!

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Yeah, my daughters dad was like that. I think better of my self and her so I left. Best decision I ever made.

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First of all you got preggo by a guy that u didnt know. Talking to females is different than sleeping with them. Also, he prob thinks you guys are broken up now, so just move on.

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If he cheated then he would be gone dad or not

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