Did she ask for it?

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So my friend always accuses her boyfriend f cheating. She finally caught him doing it and he told her , "Yeah I cheated because you always accuse me of doing it. So I said fuck it, if Im going to get accused of cheating all the time I might as well do it!"
Do you think he was in the right and it was okay?

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They're both in the wrong.
She shouldn't be constantly accusing her S/O of cheating, and he shouldn't have cheated. If it bothered him he could have either talked to her about it or left her. 
She doesn't deserve it, but she shouldn't do this every relationship since I'm sure no one wants to be accused of the same thing all the time, especially if you didn't do it. 
Not trying to sound rude, but hopefully they broke up... The relationship doesn't seem healthy, and the way they both act is wrong

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She probably rightly suspected it.

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My ex constantly accused me of cheating but I still never cheated. He was just insecure but I did end up leaving him because of the constant accusations

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shitz crazy

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It's not okay that he did it but it kinda depends how much nagging she was doing to him.

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My old boss was CONSTANTLY accused by his fiancé. Like every single night. He used to vent to me because he was not cheating and he even said that once. "It makes me feel like I should since she always tells me I am". He didn't but he did end up breaking up with her. He said he couldn't be with someone that didn't trust him while he was even at a family function. (She accused him of cheating while he was at a cousins wedding)

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I've had a guy always accuse me.  I've always said I might as well do what I'm getting accused of so I'm not getting accused for no reason . So I see where the guy is coming from.

Did she ask for it?

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