Do you think someone's a bad mother if they put their marriage before the kids

I personally put God first, then it will be my marriage and then my kids. It doesn't mean I am neglecting them or a bad mother. Every second of the day the children do not need to be put first, you can tell a child to wait a minute or schedule a date night. What all of sudden once you have kids, everything else needs to be suffer. I put God first because he gave me life and he can take it away. I put marriage second, becuase this will influence my kids on how to respect themselfs and others. Sure at some times the children will need to come first but not ALL the time. it's not wrong to put a child's wants on hold for a while to tend to your marriage. What do you ladies think?