Why me?

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My boyfriend has sex dreams LITERALLY every night and practically all night. He actually masturbates in his sleep. And it's always about other girls... It makes me feel like I'm not good enough.. and unwanted. It doesn't help that I'm a thick/curvy/chubby girl and he's a self obsessed gym rat.. So I'm already extremely insecure, especially when it comes to him... I feel like I'm stuck in this viscous circle. Any advice? :(

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He can't help his dreams. My husband gets upset because i have sex dreams all the time too. You literally cant help what you dream about. Give him some benadryl. That will knock him out. Helped me a lot haha

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I'm a big girl too. Been with my guy 4 years. He fluctuates in weight. I had bought him jeans they were tight and he had to go up a size 36 to 38 and we went back and forth on xl or 2xl lol. We all have insecurities. We all have fantasies, hello magic mike. Doesn't mean that's what we want. Men watch porn, doesn't mean he wants that or wishes you looked like that or you are not enough. You can't control dreams. If he masturbates at least he's getting it from himself and not anyone else. We are all beautiful inside and out. If you aren't happy. You change what you can and what you can't change. You learn to love, embrace and accept. He's with you because he chose to be. My man loves every inch of me. He smacks me on the butt when I'm in front of him. Or wraps his arms around me. He's the only guy I feel comfortable walking around naked. You need to work on your confident self esteem and self worth. No ones opinion matter but your own. Others opinions are dust in the wind. You gotta let things go. Gotta have the everyone can kiss my butt attitude or everything people say will bring you down. Don't let them dull your happiness or make you feel insecure. You work it girl. Embrace your sexiness. It's about attitude and confidence. Don't let anyone disrespect you. You got this. If you aren't happy with your weight take walks together. Be on top that's a Work out. F, your way to a six pack lol it's the little things. Start slow. Seltzer water over soda. Less carbs and sugar. Or if you are fine with yourself like me embrace it girl. I still rock corsets etc embrace your inner stripper.

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Theyre just dreams he cant control them

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Hes with you for a reason and yoire besutiful try to tell yourself that❤

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