Baby shower for second baby?

Rainbow
Would/did you have a baby shower for your second child? My first is 2 and will be 2 1/2 when this baby is born. I'm not sure if its weird or even acceptable to have a second baby shower. My cousin did but it was like a "let's celebrate this baby but not make it a big deal with gifts, just diapers" but everyone brought gifts and diapers anyway. 
I'd like to have a baby shower because they're fun but we also plan on doing a gender reveal party too. I also don't want people to feel obligated to bring gifts and stuff if we have a baby shower. I'm not sure what to do!
What do most people do?

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