my boyfriend & i wanna ...

my boyfriend & i wanna have a baby. im almost 17 & he is almost 18 . i wanna boy but he wants a girl but then he wants a boy. i wanna name our son after my little brother & older cousin because they arent no longer with us & they are my guardian angels so our son's name would be "jo'angel rene matthew" but if we have a little girl we dont have a first name we know that we want his beautiful mother name because she is no longer with us & i wish i would have met her our daughter's middle name would be "juantia" 
i will UPDATE when there is questions so make such you read the whole thing plus the updates 
UPDATE 
we know that there is more to having a baby than names . 
we would stay with his parents because they dont want him to leave home i dont know why he has a car we are about to finish school & his mom would be more than happy to watch her grandchild