When is it the right time to lose your virginity?

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So, I'm 15 and I'm thinking of losing my virginity. But I'm having doubts because I want to wait until someone that truly loves me comes around. But at the same time I don't want to wait. I just want to lose it because, in all honesty, I'm kinky as shit and I'm kinda getting tired of waiting. Comment your opinions?

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First)  virginity is a social construct.  No physical difference at all.  So you aren't really losing it at all - there's nothing to lose. 
Second)  I waited until I was old enough that my life wouldn't necessarily be that much harder just because I got pregnant.  Get a job,  graduate high school,  etc.  This might seem a little extreme,  but it only takes once,  especially for women in my family.  My mother had unprotected sex twice,  and I have a brother to prove it.  
Third) if you want to lose your virginity just for the sake of doing so,  don't.  I know plenty of people almost 10 years older than you who are virgins, and they aren't losers -they're done of my best friends. 
Fourth)  if you think you're ready,  then maybe you are.  No one can or should make this choice for you but you. 
Finally,  fifth)  you do want your first time to be with someone special,  but it doesn't have to be with THE one,  if you know what I mean.  Statistics show that people who have sex with more than one partner before marriage are less likely to cheat.  Think of it as practice.  But the first person will always be a part of you,  emotionally,  so choose wisely.  Think carefully before going ahead with it.  I remember my first time wasn't exactly how I imagined it,  and I regret it being with the person I chose.  That's because I mostly just tried to get it over with -hand in my v card asap. That shouldn't be your attitude.

Remember,  you are a gift.  Give yourself to someone who deserves you.  And that goes for every time,  not just your first.

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When you want to. It is a personal opinion that cannot be defined by any of us.

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When you are ready. You'll know, you'll feel it. Make sure you're safe and comfortable. Don't be afraid to communicate with your partner and speak up. Your comfort is most important.

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I think that as long as you're educated on the risks and being responsible with birth control then losing your virginity is no big deal. That said, I think that you personally should wait if you think there's any chance whatsoever you might regret not doing so. It's also important to understand that some of the kinks you're into might just be fantasy and you won't actually enjoy them in practice. If you do enjoy them in practice then it's still important to do it with someone you absolutely trust particularly if you're talking about BDSM kinks.

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The right time to lose your virginity is when YOU feel like you are ready. You don't need to put an age limit on when to lose it. There's no need to rush. If you feel like waiting until someone who truly loves you come around, nothing is wrong with that. Only you know when the time is right. 
I am not ashamed to say that I didn't lose mine until I was 25, and I'm 26 now. I'm so happy I waited because I felt ready and I wouldn't changed who I lost it to. And we're still together now. 
When the time is right, you'll know. You feel better knowing you waited until the right time than looking back and wishing you gave it to someone else.

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I was 15 when I lost mine. I didn't even particularly care for the guy in a romantic way at the time. I just felt like it was something I needed to do. I ended up falling for him and getting my heart broken but in the end I don't regret it. It was still the right thing for me in that moment and the next guy I slept with (who I had an almost 3 year relationship with who I thought loved me) turned out to be 10x worse so I'm just glad I didn't lose it to him. Basically what I'm saying is if it feels right then go for it if it's what you want, if it doesn't then it's probably not right and you should maybe wait.

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You'll know when the time is right for you.

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I would wait for that right person. It really is a special thing that shouldn't be just thrown away because you want to do it

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Lots of responsibilities come w having sex. I waited to be an adult first.

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It depends on if you feel like you can trust the person. I lost mine at 15 but it's a thing you just have to be ready for and you have to trust your partner. But for the first time if you're really scared I suggest protection (aka a condom or such). Btw I'm still with the person I lost it to so maybe it'll be the same for you. Anyways all in all it's a personal thing. You choose when you want to. There's no wrong or right time. Good luck girly

When is it the right time to lose your virginity?

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