"Don't tell the expectating mother her bump isn't the baby or it's all bloat. Don't degrade her and make her feel stupid for feeling comfortable in her own body. Don't say things like "that's not even the baby stop pushing out." "You baby isn't even that big yet, it's all bloat." Yes, depending on the situation, you may be right but you don't have to say it. Let every mother enjoy her body and her baby week by week how ever she's comfortable. You never know, this could of been a baby she's prayed for for years or even a her baby after she's lost one. "