So I'm 24w pregnant with my first child and rainbow baby. My husband and I are high school sweethearts and have been together for 11 years, married for 3.5 yrs. our plans is to move to another state next winter. Everyone knows our plans as we've been talking about it for a while. My MIL... is clingy. She can't hold a job down and always calls my husband (her oldest child) for money. Over the years I've seen him help her out so many times. Granted she is on section 8, food stamps, and Obama phone. So she has only minimal bills. The issue is she doesn't want to work as a home helper for the elderly but she has no skills. Ok so whenever the discussion of us moving comes up... she always says she's moving with us.... and I hate it. First she has 3 other kids (4 grandkids) that would need her more than we would. I feel like she's trying to include herself in this next phase of our life when it's not wanted. She just annoys me cus she's not even 50... but I just don't respect her overall.