why does anybody enjoy this

Question

my boyfriend and i have tried anal twice, once on accident because he pulled out on accident and instead of check which hole to put it into again, he went for it (insanely painful btw) and then we tried it again yesterday but it hurt too much for me to let him go in more than just the tip. we've tried lube and it still hurts terribly, how do people find it enjoyable? how do i make it hurt less?

Answer

Ok, first of all, you have to want to enjoy it. It can't be somethig you're doing just to please your SO. In my experience, I would have to have an orgasm first. And then, work our way up to it. Use a butt plug or anal beads durring vaginal sex, or durring forplay. Use lube specifically for anal sex. Give it time, it isnt going to feel good right away. In a lot of ways, its like losing your virginity. Or at least becoming sexually active for the first little bit.

Take things slow. Have a hot shower, or relaxing bath before hand. Make sure you're squeeky clean! TMI: Empty your bowels, if you need to use the bathroom it wil NOT feel good. Also, its super gross to have a dirty behind.

Don't let him just jab the entire thing it all at once, guide him in slowly! I do mean slowly! It can feel good, and it will if you take your time!

I hope this helps! Enjoy. ;P

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Lots of lube, lots of patience, lots of you relaxing and him respecting the fact that he can't go fast when he goes in. I hate the idea of it so we don't do it but we're prepared and know how if we ever decide to

Answer

How does that happen by accident? Im genuinely curious.

why does anybody enjoy this

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