You can skip and go strait to the end really but the back story is the icing on the cake here........

Ok a little bit of history first. On thanksgiving the SO and i went to my family's gathering and i will admit that every year i see some one who i know isn't family but rather a good friend off some one else. That fact is really neither here nor there though. It's whatever really i don't personally care who brings who. Any way i digress, this guy whom my aunt and uncle were talking to started talking to my SO about our recent addition of twins to our family. "He asked how many did that give us now? "( side note we had our three oldest with us as the twins were still in NICU) SO said well it gives us 5. The guy then leans in closer to SO and says rather loudly "when is the vasectomy?"

First off SO and i have talked about whether or not we are done but thats is our business and so is the method in which we see to that "YES WE ARE DONE"

But my beef is that

1. When was it anyone elses business how many kids we have as long as we are able to care for them and

2. How dare this guy, this stranger, say that to my husband? Knowingly loud enough for my to hear it too? And in front of MY family! I was shocked, insulted, and felt humiliated for my Husband.