I'm 33 weeks pregnant and today I went to buy a pram (stroller ) from someone, its second hand and it is huge and bulky but I'm desperate for one and struggling with finances as I'm now going to be a single mum so I now own this pram.

I was there trying to steer it and it is bigger than a normal sized stroller but that is because it folds out and you can use it for years

Its too big for the car boot, which is fairly small anyway. I'm looking into getting a really cheap fold up one for the car but again its extra expense. I just don't want people to see me walk from a mile away with this pram and my baby is in it.

I don't want the attention off people when he's born, to have strangers look at him and try to interact with me. Asking stupid questions. I'm going to have my own place (hopefully ) or I'm doomed!!! as I'm going to be briefly sharing the room with the newborn anyway and my room is tiny.

I will have my own place (hopefully) and be walking to town to get my food shopping and I really don't want to. If I can help it, how embarrassing is it to be a single mum 😧 no one is going to want me. I'm used goods.