feeling stuck.

I love my husband, I really do, he's helped me get through a lot of rough times in my life but lately he's so different and I hate it. He's been treating me like I'm the most worthless person he's ever met. Nothing I do is good enough no matter how hard I try I can't meet his standards. He openly admitted tonight that he thinks I'm stupid. He keeps telling our daughter things in reference to him being the better parent and while right now she's only 2 weeks old if he keeps doing it she will grow up thinking I'm stupid and he's all mighty. However he never changes diapers, he's gotten up with her maybe twice, he has never given her a bath or fed her, I'm breastfeeding but I have offered to pump so he can feed her and he has no interest in it. He only wants the fun parts of parenthood like getting to hold her and be seen with her in public but none of the responsibilities. He kept saying he really hopes she has pretty blue eyes like he does and not green eyes like me. She has blue eyes for now but honestly I hope they turn green. I can't ever talk to him about anything because it turns into an argument. There is ZERO communication. For instance I found out tonight that he has asked his parents for financial help while I'm on maternity leave. He never talked to me about that. I'm just so fed up and I'm starting to hate my marriage but I can't ever tell him that and I can't take a couple days and leave because he will demand our daughter and I can't lose her. She is honestly the only thing keeping me around, I'm afraid he will try and take her from me. I just don't know what to do. He isn't the man I fell in love with....