Makeup HELP

Ok i have a makeup ? ..... I hate when i finish my makeup ill look super matte before i leave my house but then when i come home it looks like the makeup has seeped into the creases in my face , esp around my mouth. and the pores on my cheeks idk it just doesnt look good. i started using setting powder so i dont get oily but im starting to feel like i look dry and ashy. idk any tips or suggestions