Sex question. Need addvice!!!

Kassie
So i have had a lot of sex before but i just got out of a year long relationship where we did not have sex due to the fact that he was supper religious and i respected that. Anyway we broke up. So i went out this part with this guy i have been talking to we had a few drinks and went back to his place. We had sex now he said it was amazing but the whole time i was in so much pain... I dont know why it felt like i was a fraking virgin again!! So what im asking is im going to see him again this weekend and i want to enjoy it any addvice on how i can make it feel better for me??