First Time

Acsa
Hi everyone this is new for me and I'm kind of embarassed for posting this. But ok,Here I go. Last Sunday was my first time, actually the first time for both of us. We are 22 years old, but we were still V. For me, it hurt so bad so we just did it once, but yesterday we were alone in his house and started making out and suddenly we were in his bed, making love again. For that time it didn't hurt that bad, so we made it like 3 times. The fist time( Sunday) he used comdom and I took the pill few hours next to that, but the second time,(yesterday) he just used  condom. 
I feel so naiv, you know because I'm knew at this topic. I want to know how long it takes for a woman to stop aching, and if is condom enough?