We found out I'm pregnant with our first on Wednesday and since then my excitement has turned into fear... not fear of being a mummy but fear of losing my husband.

He doesn't think we will be able to afford to live with a baby as he relies on both our incomes to survive in this house. I told him that I will still get maternity pay and that we will find a way to manage but he's still set on me getting an abortion.

I have waited for the moment when I get pregnant for so long now and I was so excited. I just don't want this baby to be born to a dad who doesn't want it coz I no that won't go down well. But I also don't want to have an abortion coz I know I won't just loose a baby but I will loose my husband too. How can I forgive him for forcing me into it?

I have tried talking it through with him but he just doesn't listen all he cares about is the fact that he doesn't feel ready.

Please can someone help me with what to do??