Am I crazy for getting mad at my husband?

Question

Am I right for getting frustrated/mad at  my husband?  I love him very much. He's a sweet, loving man and will be a wonderful father to our baby BUT sometimes I think I'm dealing with a child. 
I don't think he realizes that having a baby is not a game.
I'm all for him getting into fun projects. He's super smart and creative, loves to work with wood, on his classic car, motorcycle, bike, etc. and now he's thinking of putting together a computer w/ crazy hightech things that I don't understand. 
My issue is... all the parts will be all over the apartment, and he thinks he'll have plenty of time to spare!! He hasn't fix the closet to fit more baby stuff in it, build the shelves he said he would, put the car seat in the car. Hell, he hates to pay bills, go grocery shopping or do anything related to the house or adult shit !! We are supposed to be a team.l!! and I wrong?? 
I'm due a week from now!!! a week!! I told him to at least wait a month after the baby is born and then decide if building the PC thing now is a good idea or not.
Am I being irrational ?? This could be his way of dealing with change but I don't give an F anymore. I have to take care of everything else for our family. I feel like I am the boring, naggy wife that I never wanted to be but I have no other option!!! All I need is f'ng help !! 
I am mad and I really don't think I need the stress of having a teenager and a baby!! We both wanted a baby, well... here he is!! 
I already told him what I feel but can anyone pls tell me what else I could do to get it through his head ???

Answer

I hate to say it but you've almost waited too long to address it. You may not have enough time to get people in to do the work. Seriously though that's what I'd have done. Six weeks ago I'd have told him that any projects not fully completed, by week 37, I'd be making calls to have a handy man come out to do and I'll be using his debit/credit card to pay for it.

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Everyone needs time to decompress. We have an almost 8 week old and my SO sometimes accuses me of trying to manage his time. So we talk about what needs to get done, we prioritize it and I deal with the fact he needs time to do things for himself. He deals with fact I need baby free time for me. It's a balancing act and sometimes I go insane that not everything gets done (it's worse now that baby is here). And we negotiate more. Sleep less.

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He probably knows you'll give in and do the things for him. Stay strong and leave his jobs untouched. He'll have to do them eventually out of necessity.

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Not being irrational at all.. Priorities change when babies come. And partners jobs at home kinda change when youre pregnant too!

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I'm in the same boat with my husband. He is very sweet, loving and kind. But I'm constantly having to remind him of priorities. Very frustrating. But counting my blessings. I could have married some guy who turned out to be abusive. I just keep working with him.

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1. Make him a list of things to do before baby arrives

2. Tape it to his hand

3. Tell him to get the f to work! 😄

Am I crazy for getting mad at my husband?

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