When will my boyfriend grow up?

Question

My boyfriend and I are 19 years old. I live with my best friend, trying to have a baby with him, and finish highschool. He doesn't have a job, lives with his mom, and relies on his mother and I on gas money. I love him dearly but what age will he get his shit together.

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Okay you guys can handle gas money but what can you really offer a baby at this point?
When you get pregnant you'll be taking care of 2 children..him and this child.
As long as hes getting everything handed to him and being spoon fed, he'll never step up.
It's easy for him to cum in you, but when your hormones begin to kick in/change, if you think it's bad now...... You'll only feel worse.
Please reconsider until you can give this baby the life he/she deserves. & Also remember a baby is not a baby forever!

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You should probably wait until you finish high school and until your boyfriend does become financially independent and stable. Otherwise, your problems will just get bigger and bigger. My aunt once told me that guys don't mature until around age 26. My mom disagreed and said they never mature. 🙃

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He won't as long as someone is doing it all for him.

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What about college and a good job traveling!? Y'all are still in high school do anyone have real goals I'm not trying to be mean but I had my first child before high school (wasn't planned) i love my children but if I could've waited I would've waited because trying to do school with a new born was difficult especially the first few months I was literally falling asleep in class because of late night feedings and I settled for the first job I could find to be able to provide for my child. It's not as easy as it may seem and it might just be you want the security of a family of your own but I would suggest waiting a little bit longer but whatever you decide I wish you the best of luck

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You realize he's probably with you for need? I don't know, I wouldn't recommend get pregnant right now because if he doesn't even have money for gas... now a baby

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He doesn't even have money for gas yet you're trying to have a kid? Umm are you crazy??? You should be trying to run not trying to have a baby!

When will my boyfriend grow up?

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