I hope that I don't annoy or offend those of you that have been ttc for longer than me, but I'm having a hard time emotionally. We've been ttc for four months and still not pregnant. We use preseed, i use opks, and this time I even took mucinex. I'm 29, my husband is 28. He has even had his sperm checked which was normal. I just thought it would happen sooner, and I am absolutely terrified every single day that there is something wrong. How does anyone just relax about this, like everyone tells me to do? I know my stress level is making ttc harder, but I am at a loss as to how to get my emotions under control. I tell myself that God will give us a baby when it is the right time, and I know this in my head, but it is SO HARD to have no way of knowing for sure if this will actually happen for us. Im surrounded by people who got pregnant the first time, and I feel like everyone is looking at me wondering why I'm not pregnant yet and wondering if there's something wrong with me. Im honestly fishing for encouraging words and pep talks right now, I'm not even going to deny it lol. Help me get myself together here 😔😕😥😖