I need help girls! 3 years ago around this time of year I gained 40 pounds overnight literally. I have 40pound sin swelling and it fluctuates I was 135 then the next day I was 185. I went I the emergency room twice and they couldn't tell me anything. I went to an arthritis doctor for 2 years to try to figure it out because now I have tons of joint pain and standing for 20 minutes I get even more swollen. I had gone to the Mayo clinic and all they can tell me so far is I have 40 pounds in swelling which i already knew. I'm posting these pictures because I already know I'm over weight now and I want to be confident in my own body and feel sexy in the bedroom again. I've been sexually active since I was 14 and I'm now 20 years old. I'm in a serious relationship and I want to be able I have sex with him without feeling uncomfortable. I workout daily and apply coconut oil on my body everyday along with eating pretty well but someone I'm not loosing weight or even toning up and it's killing me I've been at it for 2 years and I feel like giving up on anything romantic. If any of you have advice I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you!