This is just going to be me venting. So sorry if it'd whiney and annoying. So my boyfriend's brother's ex girlfriend (confusing, I know) had their baby in November. She was almost two months premature. She doesn't have much money so I paid for her and her baby's hospital and nicu bills. Well now she's pregnant again already with a different guy and she doesn't have any money hardly. She lives with her mother and her mom isn't exactly wealthy either. My boyfriend's brother is practically useless. He won't get a job, won't take care of his kids, yet he'll spend $100 a week that he gets from God knows where on weed. The reason I care is because she keeps asking me for money. I just had my own baby and I need to focus on buying her things. I didn't get pregnant a second time so why should I have to pay up?

Now here's where it gets worse. My boyfriend's brother got ANOTHER girl pregnant within a month of the first one. So she's due any day now and I'm over here stressed as can be because I just found out that she had been drinking all throughout her pregnancy. I feel for these babies. I wish I could help them but I'm afraid that it just enables their lazy and irresponsible parents. I don't think it would annoy me so much if they didn't constantly rag on me for essentially nothing. The first girl was complaining to me because my mother in law is not available to babysit for her now since she flew to be with me while I gave birth. She doesn't need a babysitter. She doesn't have a job. She just wants to go out and I don't get why since she's pregnant. Ugh. Sorry this is long and annoying. I just needed to let out the bad energy.