boyfriend calls me a dumb bitch?
I'm posting anonymously because I'd really rather not have any sort of judgement.
My boyfriend and I got into it yesterday, he wanted me to bring him to menards and I told him no because I didn't feel good, and to drive himself. (8 weeks pregnant) he asked why and I told him again, if you can drive to work, drive out of town, and drive everywhere else, you can drive to the damn store and don't need me to bring you. I bring him places all the damn time and I was tired and didn't feel good, so he responds "fuck you dumb bitch don't expect shit from me, I pay all the bills I do everything so don't expect a penny from me" and we're suppose to have a child in July. We usually don't fight like this but it's really gotten to me to the point where I've been short with him all day today not really talking to him or responding to a whole lot because I'm hurt by what he's said about me, and I don't know how to talk to him about it. Please help?
UPDATE: I'm going to write a letter explaining how I feel so I don't start another fight because we really don't communicate the best and I have been having a really hard time with my pregnancy being as tired and as sick as I've been. So I'm going to explain that I understand if he needs my help which duh totally understandable, but he also needs to understand that I'm gonna have days where if I don't need to do anything I'm gonna try and rest because that seems to be the only thing my body wants right now. I've never been so tired and emotional in my life. To those who are telling me to leave, it's the first and only time it's happened, and I've been in toxic relationships before to know how bad they can get. I truly believe that he was just upset, stressed, or sick or all of the above since we've both been sick for about a week now. In no way shape or form will I ever let anyone disrespect me as I saw my parents do it with their relationship for over 15 years. I love my boyfriend and please tell me you ladies have never called your SO a name under stress or while being mad and talking shit to your girlfriends because I'm no saint. I was simply just venting and wanted advice on how to talk to him about how I feel based on what he said. Thank you.
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