how to bond with boyfriends siblings???

Question

My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year now. I am 15 and he is turing 17 soon.  We have a great relationship and hang out all the time.. i have no complaints other than the fact that i can't ever seem to bond with his younger siblings!!! He is the oldest of 5, the youngest being 6 and the second oldest next to him is a 13 year old girl, which is my only sister and siblings age ironically. I feel like I should be able to bond with them considering I see them often but it seems impossible! Over the summer we went to his uncles house a lot to swim and I even stayed at his family's beach house for a week, where I did begin to slowly bond with the kids but now it feels like they think they can't talk to me or are scared of me even though I always smile at them and say hi. I'm not the most outgoing person but I have no issue starting conversations with them.  I get along so well with all of my other friends siblings and family friends kids but for some reason I can never get it right with his siblings even though he talks with my younger sister all the time! I would love to bond and get closer with his siblings but i have no idea how to. Any advice???

Answer

Well with the younger ones you can play any toys or games they like with them and the older girl if she has any of the same interests as you you guys can chat and bond about those. I can't relate much as my bf only has an older sister so I like never see her.  But to bond and get a long with my two young siblings he plays games with them and talks to them about stuff they like

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I feel ya ! I'm 22 and my boyfriends siblings are 31 , 36 and 35 , my boyfriend is 25 . They all have kids and are way more mature then me ! I know the feeling but I just try and start conversations and join in on them and make them laugh and that seems to help a ton !

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Omggg this is literally me! I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17 too! And he has 3 younger brothers and I feel like the younger two (9 and 7) don't really like me 😂all the advise I can give you is that just talk to them and just try to make them happy by playing games with them aswell as being with you're boyfriend xx

how to bond with boyfriends siblings???

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